Comments on whatcholookin@: I haven’t posted in a while. Something called a b...

I think I'm at a loss for words. Too bad he's mis...

2005-04-21T10:37:00.000-07:00

I think I'm at a loss for words. Too bad he's missing out on G. Stay strong even thought I know it's frustrating...

girl there is no need to sweat him... what he does...

2005-04-20T08:35:00.000-07:00

girl there is no need to sweat him... what he does or DOESN'T do. it's his loss that he is letting the days go by without seeing his own seed. *tsk tsk*

unrelated comment WOO, you're year of the dragon...

2005-04-19T20:08:00.000-07:00

*unrelated comment* WOO, you're year of the dragon, just like my B!

anyway, all i've got to say is that you've got far more patience than me. a lot of my mother's habits (may they be bad or good) have effected the way i've chosen to deal with my respective sperm donors (one of which i was MARRIED TO!). it bewilders folk all the time but i've chosen to leave it alone. sure it BASICALLY releives their asses of responsiblity and drained me emotionally (and CONTINUES to drain me financially) but i chose to do it for my peace of mind. i'm the child of the exact same situation (except i'd see my pops sporadically since i was always over his mother's house) and as an adult i've grown to see how much guilt he has about having NOTHING to do with me being the person i am today. niggas might act an ass, but it'll hit them eventually. and when it does, it weighs heavy on their heart (and fuckit, even if it doesn't i FULLY believe in karma and the univers will take care of them FOR me).

until then i just REALLY felt like i couldn't make any forward progress if i had to fight those niggers (YES, with the ERs) every step of the way to be involved in their childrens' lives. so there's no daddies. no child support. but not for a second do my babies spend a day feeling underprivleged or unloved. never.ever.

*hugs*

Epi, don't argue with ignorance. You can't win. I ...

2005-04-19T06:19:00.000-07:00

Epi, don't argue with ignorance. You can't win. I hate that Baddy hasn't stepped up to the plate. At this point, you see his true colors. Don't stress yourself over his non-actions.

I'm telling you... this is the #1 reason I'm so hesistant to have a baby. One of my largest fears is having to raise my child(ren) alone.

You handled that well mama. He needs to stop givi...

2005-04-18T17:31:00.000-07:00

You handled that well mama. He needs to stop giving you excuses. You stop dropping G off and he doesn't see him for a week? WTF?!?

girl don't waste your time arguing with your son's...

2005-04-18T13:50:00.000-07:00

girl don't waste your time arguing with your son's father it isn't worth it. i don't know what is up with men with not spending enough quality time with their kids, i used to think married couples had it easy but they don't, it's just a male thing. see they can make the baby and brag i'm going to be a father but whe it comes time to babysit, change diapers, feed them take them to the doctor, etc., their butts aint' around or have an excuse not to. be strong girl and give the lil man a kiss for me.

Gurl I feel you....my boys are big now 12 and 17.....

2005-04-18T11:35:00.000-07:00

Gurl I feel you....my boys are big now 12 and 17...I almost begged a lot of times for my ex to spen more time with them...take them to practice...etc..etc I have almost forced to e-mail, write their "sperm-donar" Now girl...I give up......I can't make their relationship....ya know......I could go on an on but I don't wanna "post" in your comments....LOL
Thanks for checkin a sista out....